1 - i went out with this one guy. Bongsu, and the only man in the family. he's okay..so nice (1st day).. But i started to realize sumthing. He always asked me to share all the foods and drinks together. i cant do that because i dont kno about him, xkn tiba2 jer nk share everythings kot. So i just ignored all that things n i quite perasan la his face berubah.
2 - When he asked me where to go, what movie to watch, where to eat, what to eat..i just angkat bahu and said 'dont know,i ikut u'.. btol pe, i dont have any ideas to give him.(mane aku knal sme tempat2 best kt kl tu)..and his face akan berubah lg skali.mesti dia rasa x guna kn ask my opinion,at last dia sdri yg kena pk
3 - Once again, he asked me to try his meal and again, i told him 'i,xnak'.. berubah lg skali muka dia but 4 this time, dia trus senyap, n keep smoking. and i? sentiasa x abiskan makanan tu and mkn lmbat!!
4 - last day, he promised to send me to lcct on that morning. Owh b4 that, i asked him to hav our breakfast together.but , i cancelled it (actually i rs malu sbb slalu mkn dia blanja).Guess wat.. he told me that he can just send me to the airport and he need to go to his office pdahal dia cuti ari tu utk anta aku.. then, i looked at his shirt.pakai short je, xkn nk masuk office cmtu je kot. dsebabkan rs sgt marah nk kna tinggal kt airport sorang, i just senyap all the way to lcct. i don even merayu supaya he waited 4 me at least i siap check in. When we reached lcct, he wanted to hold my luggage but i x bg.and punya la bodoh i ni, lsg x ckp thanks or jumpa lg or i will miss u .. x ckp pape but trus tarik beg masuk check in.
5- bila da smpai rumah, then br i realized dia da byk brubah.no more messages, no more calls. when i text him 1st, nak x nak je jawabnya. gile terasa ati ker apa..? so i started to realize that maybe dia ni rasa x diperlukan kot. adeh, sungguh susah nak menjaga ati seorang lelaki tunggal yg bongsu ni.
6- today, he will go to medan with his family..
so kawan2.. i need the opinion or suggestions apa yg patut dilakukan skang ni. adakah aku patut ignore je dia tu.. atau aku patut cuba amek ati dia balik..?
p/s : gila kentang ati mamat nih. punya la berjela2 aku msg kat dia, sepatah je dia jawab? aku bkn seorang yg penyabar.. tp aku try rendahkan my ego nak pujuk balik.kalo depan mata, mau aku ketok kpala dia.. ingat aku nih ape ha...
ermm.. ko b'minat dgn dia ke?
ReplyDeletetp kn eli, aku mcm curious ble dia wat muke wkt ko xnk share food dgn dia.. knp ek harus gtu?
kalo aku, maybe aku ignore je. tp kalo terase ade ape2 perasaan dlm hati tu maybe lain plak cite nye.. huhu
sesungguhnye aku rasa cam nk ngamuk jap..
ReplyDeletepunyela pjg lebar aku tulih td..last2 masa post, cam kna block plak..
argghh...tensen2..
aku ringkaskn jela eh..letih dh nk taip..haha
1)mu say sorry dlu..org laki ni kdg2 mende tu je die nk dgr
2) ask him what did u do wrong
3) buatla ala2 sesi luahan prasaan tp in a good way la..jgn nnt dok tuding jari masing2 lak..discuss ape yg korg suke n ape yg korg xsuke..at least korg aware bout that
4) yg plg penting, mu kna kaji sket bground die gane..yela..mu kata die ank bongsu..mu plok ank sulung..so maybe ade few different things yg xsama antara korg..
5) last skali..ape yg penting?? kejesamaa..hehe..bincang molek2 deh..
wish u all da best..pjg lebar opinion aku..hehe
@wani: aku da slow talk ng dia.aku tanya dia ada terasa ng aku or aku ada wt slah ke.dia kate sumpah demi allah xde trase n aku pon x de wt slh ng dia.dia ckp byk kje sbb dia accountant so skang akhir thn byk co yg nk close account.dia janji pas balik medan ni sme akn jd ok.
ReplyDeletepatut ke aku tunggu dia? aku ni slalu je msg amek ati dia,konon2 cm nk amek berat la kn. tp tuhan je yg tau betapa seksanya aku bile dia jawab cmtu jer..
susah la wey anak bongsu ni.bosan aku!
@ain : aku suke dia laa.. dh lame kitorg men msg and take care each other tp tup2 jd cmni.aku x kisah kalo dia x ske aku tp at least aku nk tau nape. kalo doa x ske aku x pyh la reply msg2 aku..
cmane ni? aku dah mule ske, sia lak wat hal. stengah dr ati aku ckp ignore je, tp stgh lg ckp cuba lagi.mane tau dia nak uji aku..
tabah lah hati
pokok pangkalnya tanya hati ..kalo suka teruskan..kalo tak suka or rasa 50-50 jek ignore jek..based on my experience ngan anak bongsu nih sungguh menguji kesabaran laa..sgt2 mencabar mental ku..skek2 nak majuk..kita nak majuk pun takde can..huhu..
ReplyDeleteermm..kalo k.zie nih ada skek la ego tuh..dah skali 2 msg org reply lebih kurang jek aku buat donno terus..kalo btul takde pape dia akan cari kita blk laa..malas aku nak pujuk-raya org nih..huhu..
insyaallah..kalo ada jodoh tak ke mana..kalau mmg dia dah jodoh kita segalanya akan jadi mudah..cuma kalo rasa2 tak pasti..jgn letak 100% kat org tuh..biar 70-80% jek dah laa..takut kalo jatuh kebaboom kang parah pulak..hihi..
okey..pape pun..gud luck..
@k zie -kalo ikut ati ni malas da nk pujuk2,bg muka kt org.at last org x pnh nk hargai pon.ni pon based on experiences.cuma xde lg experiences ng ank bongsu,ni yg leceh ni. tp stakat ni ati kate ske lg kt dia.so akn try la amek ati dia lg. isnin ni dia balik dr medan,kalo prangai tetap x brubah, hye hye bye bye la jawabnya.x kuasa da wat tebal muka tunggu dia.baek cr yg len je..haha
ReplyDeleterasa cm nk buat je mcm k zie. buat donno je.tp masalahnya dia still reply msg, cuma kita la nk kna msg dlu.pastu da xde la ayat jiwang2 tu..hahaha, tu yg x best !
yang penting,berserahlah pada Tuhan.Asyik2 jumpa ng orang yg salah jer..bila la nk jumpa ng orang btol plak.kawan2 ramai yg da kawen ni..nk kna kejar trip gak..
wish me luck ye k zie.!
kalo gitu, mu try jgn msg die..
ReplyDeletekalu rasa nk msg gok, thn je jgn msg
tgk die ada msg mu ke x..
kalo die btol care psl mu, msti die akn msg..
aku pn geram gok kalu aku msg, org jwb gtu2 je..
lama2 fedap gok aku..
kalo die kata after blk dr medan, everything will be ok, then just wait for dat time..
tgk btol ke x..
tuh la pasal. aku pon cm da malas da nk msg dia. aku nk tgk je sepanjang dok medan ada x dia nk msg aku. tp aku cm da tau je yg dia xkn msg aku. org tgh syok bercuti,mane nk ingt aku da.. happtuiihh btol..
ReplyDeleteari isnin ni dia balik.x sabar aku nk tunggu ari tu datang.tp kalo dia ni jenis x sedar2 cmne eh. anak bongsu ni biasanya kna pampered btol2. ah xde2.. aku ni anak sulung,so kna la hormat.haha.. actually aku ade satu plan baek punya nk buat kt dia. bnda ni kali terakhir la usaha nk amek ati dia balik.tp kalo cara ni pon still nk ego lg.. mmg aku trus blah ah. watpe aku nk simpan lg laki cmtu kan? nti kalo aku kawen ng dia,mampos la asyik3 aku je nk amek ati dia.ati aku ni cmner..
bagus la idea mu nih !
alamak.. aku terketinggalan lagik..
ReplyDeletehurm.. pokok pangkal tanya sama itu hati..
nak seribu daya, xnak seribu dalih..
acece.. pe kes berperibahasa lak ni? hahaha..
tapi aku bersetuju la ngan cdgn cik wanie kite tue.. acu cube try test dulu cdgn tue..
kalo xjalan jugak, harap2 ko jalan terus la.
bungkus beg, terus blah..
tapi kalo cdgn tu okey, beg tinggal tepi, gi basuh pinggan kat dapur..
"maknanya ko stay ngan dia la, mybe dia trase ati je tu"
ayat aku tunggang langgang sket.. kalo x phm, sila private msg.. hahahaha..
fine baby fine..
ReplyDeletepatut la dtg kl haram x msg ak lgsg..
hahaha
wat tatau sudah.
kalu ko rasa tabah nk cuba, silakan..